Title: Words Are Not For Hurting

Authors: Elizabeth Verdick

Themes: Bullying, Communication, Coping Skills, Developing Empathy, Friendship, Parenting, Social Skills

Age Recommendation:  Pre-K through Elementary School

Summary: Words Are Not For Hurting is a very basic introduction to prosocial problem solving and social skills development. The text supports the concept that everyone feels frustrated or angry sometimes, and that there are appropriate ways to manage those emotions. The illustrations in the book provide examples of ways to use our words carefully and constructively. This is a good book to use in conjunction with the other title in this series, Hands Are Not For Hitting.

Ideas / Ideation: This is not a particularly interesting book for kids, but it is a great conversation starter. I have used this book in one-on-one sessions with children who struggle with impulsivity and anger, in small social skills groups when discussing how to express feelings, or in classrooms to teach about bullying. It's a handy book to have around, even if it is a little boring!